Before You Meet
- Keep personal and financial information private.
- Watch for romance scams and never send money, gift cards or crypto.
- Take your time and consider a video call before meeting.
- Meet publicly and tell someone where you are going.
Safety Centre
Respect is part of the culture.
Practical tools, human review and clear standards help build a safer place to date across the Black diaspora.
Your Account
- Use a strong, unique password and protect verification codes.
- Profile verification is optional and reviewed by people, not an automated face match.
- Other members see approximate distance, never your exact coordinates.
- Only signed-in, unblocked members can view your profile photos.
Our Moderation
- Members can report and block from profiles and conversations.
- Staff tools support human review of reports, photos and verification requests.
- Blocked members are removed from each other's discovery experience.
- We do not currently claim automated fake-profile detection.
Community Standards
- Harassment, hate and discrimination are not welcome.
- Colourism, fetishisation and sexual harassment violate the spirit of this community.
- Threats, scams, impersonation, exploitation and non-consensual content are not accepted.
- Respect is part of the culture.
If something happens
Use the in-app report option so the moderation team receives the profile and details. Block the person to stop further contact. If anyone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first.
Exact coordinates are not shown to other members.Read the Community Guidelines